What happens during a cuddle session?

You walk into my office. High vibrational music is playing, or maybe the type of music or movie you request for your visit. The atmosphere is set to a calm and relaxing mode as aromatherapy delights the sense of smell. It is time to leave the outside world if only for a moment—a moment to be loved on, deeply embraced and nurtured through gentle touch, a moment of self-care, a moment of high-vibrational energy exchange. 

While wearing comfy clothes we prepare to snuggle up and relax. Everything is soft and comforting. You will feel loved because you are. The energy is sincere and pure—we’re surrounded with authentic love energy because we all deserve to be loved. 

We can sit or lie next to each other holding hands or not even touch at all. Maybe just being in someone else’s focused presence is what you crave. Perhaps you’re uncomfortable with touch because of the lack of touch in your life or past trauma, yet have a desire to reclaim that part of you, to honor the desire to be physically touched in a way that nurtures and heals as opposed to igniting shame or guilt.

A cuddle session is client-focused, which means it’s meant to cater to how you’d like to experience it. We can cuddle in silent meditation focusing on breathing, embrace or simply hang out while watching TV, play a card game while chatting or even read (bring your book!). The goal is to be in the moment of a positive energy exchange.

My cuddle session do not offer sex. Some cannot fathom being physically intimate with another during the act of cuddling and it not including sexual activity. This is mainly due to past situations that painted one’s view and understanding of intimacy and sex. 

Yes, cuddling can be sensual and passionate. 

Yes, it can cause the body to reacts with sexual arousal. This is natural and nothing to suppress or be ashamed of. A cuddle session is the perfect opportunity to transmute that sexual desire and energy into higher realms of self instead of physically acting on it. This allows us to honor ourselves and another by respecting boundaries and the sanctity of loving human bonding while mutually sharing an intimate space.

Sometimes it’s not sex you need but the opportunity to transmute your sensual and sexual energies to higher levels that are more beneficial to your physical and spiritual well-being when sexual energy arises.